Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Being submissive...

Now, I know it has been a while since I have been here.  A LOT has been going on but I am back now! 

Being submissive is God's order for a marriage between a man and a woman.  I struggle with this but if I want God to bless my marriage and my family, I have to abide by God's word.  The Bible tells us to be submissive unto our OWN HUSBAND!  Key word...OWN!!  Now there are times that I hear my husband but I think to myself that there is no way that I am doing that or is he crazy.  But after the fact, I sit and think hmmmmmm, God was the foundation of our marriage so I would be crazy not to abide by His Word. Now, I am going to admit...I struggle with this but hey, I'm a work in process!!!

If you are having problems with this, don't go to your BFF's or your co-workers, go to God.  He knows and has the BEST ANSWERS!!

Now think about one thing.  When you were dating your spouse were you submissive to him then more than you are now?  You don't have to answer this out loud but answer it for yourself.  If you feel as where you were doing more for your boyfriend/fiance' then verses what you are doing now, then an evaluation needs to be done.  You know we did EVERYTHING we could to get that MAN!! We can go back to that now but it would have a better feeling now because we are doing it for our HUSBAND AND THAT IS A COMMAND BY GOD!!!

The man is the head of household!!  There is nothing wrong with letting your man feel like he is the KING OF THE CASTLE!!! Have the house clean, cook his meal, he may even appreciate the fact of you running his bath water!!  You know they say when momma is happy the house is happy.  But guess what, when daddy is happy the house is happy...ESPECIALLY MOMMA!!!!



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