Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Hey guess what...he does have a soft side.

As we know, the man is there to protect us.  To make sure we have what we need.  That is why we love "him" so much; right?!?!?!  YES!!!  But what about his soft side?  Does he have one?  Have you ever seen it?  Have you ever mentioned to him if he has one?  All men have a soft side!  It's nothing to be ashamed of and that doesn't make him any less of a man.  He is human as well women!  We are a hand full and a lot to deal with.  Sometimes I wonder to myself, how does he deal with me...lol! 

We always want the man to give us a massage; to cuddle with us; to go to dinner when we want and where we want; and so much more.  Guess what???  Flip the script.  Give him the massage. Cuddle up with him.  Take him to dinner.  Give him an unexpected gift every now and then.  Wrestle with him.  What ever it takes, do it.  If you see him cry, be that shoulder he can cry on.  We always cry on their shoulders.  Men will appreciate it sooner than later. 

Women, if you say you don't know how to do those things, then read. There is so much research out here on the WORLD WIDE WEB that it can tell you how and when to do anything.  Read blogs for married women.  Ask other married women.  Don't give them full detail...just throw out some key lines to get the understanding of what you should do.  We have to learn to be there for our husbands far beyond the eye can see.  Doing things for your husband does not have to be extraordinary or this big planned event.  It can be as simple as putting a sticky note message in his lunch or on the sterring wheel in his car. Send a text message every now and then and see what will happen.  You know the things that we don't do for our own husbands, there are women out there that will. 

All I am saying is don't abuse your husband ability of taking care of you.  He does have a soft side and he likes to be taken care of as well.  If you have never thought about this, start today.  It's not to late to consider these things!  Have fun at it!


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